Letting go of a relationship is not always easy. It is however sometimes necessary for your health and well being. Let me explain it in two different ways.
There was a time in my life many years ago that I needed to change my life, or loose it. So I made the decision to let all of my close friends go. Some of these were friends that I had known since birth. Others I had known for more than 15yrs.
So why was this necessary?
You can not serve two masters.
What I mean by this is simple. If changing your life is important, you can not put yourself in situations that will compromise your goals. You may think this is selfish but it is not. This is your life we are talking about.
If you where an alcoholic you would not want to be hanging around in clubs. This would just be setting yourself up for a fall. If you want to lose weight do not buy a cake. If you find yourself always choosing the wrong guy or women take the time to discover why, so you can get off this destructive cycle.
Everyone is entitled to lead there life as they see fit. My friends just had a different agenda than I did.
Looking back on this decision proved to be a good one. My life has turned out to be amazing. It is getting better everyday. That would not have been the case if I had not made this decision.
Letting go of a relationship is sometimes the healthiest thing you can do.
This also will work with a love relationship. If you need to make a fresh start and the person you love will not or can not change to help you grow, then it may be time to move on to a healthier relationship.
This does not mean you have to separate in anger, It only means that you do not have the same goals. For each person to grow to the full potential they must be in positive environments.
Letting Go Of A Relationship should not be a negative experience.
When making any decisions in life, always see the higher good for all parties involved. Do nothing out of anger or selfishness, this is not for anyone's higher good.
Letting go of a relationship no matter how hard, is sometimes what is best for all concerned.
Life is about making decisions and living with the consequences. This is cause and effect.
This is a Positive Affirmation
Written by Rev. Carol
Will help in establishing a positive relationship in your life.
God is everything that is of truth, love, beauty wisdom, joy knowledge and all the good that is. My life is God’s life. I now have the most perfect love relationship.
This relationship supports me and the work of God that I choose to do honest in all ways and in all affairs. Only the truth is spoken, there is no lies or deceit in any of our affairs. Our relationship is based on respect and integrity.
We both are gentle, kind and loving to one another. We are totally sincere. We have a relationship that is full of fun and quality time. We both are outgoing. We enjoy keeping our home clean and in an orderly fashion together.
If we choose to have children or pets they are a part of our love, and we joy their company. We are both generous with our money, time and love. We have no past commitments that keep us occupied away from each other. We are both self supporting and our jobs are always a pleasant part of our sharing together. Our attention towards one another is romantic and we are faithful to each other.
We both love children and respect their individual personalities We both share a spiritual bond that is a unique and special part of our relationship. We are both equally matched in our intellectual abilities.
We are both tender and slow to anger with the patience to know we both are divine manifestations of the one Spirit Of God, unique to our own being. Neither one of us controls or manipulates one another for gain for one of our own benefits.
There is no criticism of each other and our love goes beyond criticism, knowing that we are both perfect in who we are. We both control our emotions so that neither one of us subject each other or anyone else to any physical, or mental harm or negativity in any way.
We both enjoy other on a daily basis in all that we do, without causing any discomfort for the other. Our love making is full of romance and fun. We both enjoy taking our time to make sure each one if fully and completely satisfied without causing any uncomfortably . We both love to enjoy experiencing the abundance of life and all of God’s riches. Our time is always full of all goodness. I thank God for this wonderful fulfilling relationship.
I am a constant source of Spirits Love incoming and outgoing. I release my word to the Universe for total perfect manifestation now. I know ,without a doubt that my word Is God’s law in action complete as soon as I state or even think it.
"When we meet real tragedy in life, we can react in two ways--either by loosing hope and falling into self-destructive habits, or by using the challenge to find our inner strength."
Dalai Lama xiv